Grace for moms

Hello July… 🍃 A new page, a new month, and still… the same unchanging God. We moms often step into a new month carrying yesterday’s regrets, last week’s worries, and tomorrow’s what-ifs. ➡️ Maybe June ended with a fight you regret. ➡️ Maybe you lost patience with your little ones. ➡️ Or maybe you’re quietly anxious about what July might bring — bills, school fees, health worries… But here’s the quiet truth: July isn’t new just because the calendar changed. It’s new because His mercies are new every morning (Lamentations 3:23). You don’t need a brand new you to face this month. You just need to remember: 🌼 The same God who held your yesterdays… 🌼 The same God who saw every tear you hid in June… 🌼 The same God who forgave, restored, and kept you… …is already here in July, waiting with love that never runs out. ✨ New month, same God. And that is always enough. ✨ 📖 Bible Verse: “The steadfast love of the LORD never ceases; His mercies never come to an end; they are new every morning…”...

Sister, do you know the story? About the shepherd who had 100 sheep… and left the 99 to find the one that was lost? Maybe today, you feel like that lost sheep. 🌱 Lost in endless chores that no one thanks you for. 🌱 Lost in motherhood — forgetting who you were before children. 🌱 Lost in marriage — feeling unseen, unvalued, unheard. 🌱 Lost in guilt over past mistakes, words spoken in anger, or choices you regret. And sometimes you think: “They wouldn’t even notice if I disappeared… I don’t matter that much…” But listen carefully, dear sister: Jesus notices. When your heart wanders into loneliness, regret, or exhaustion… When your soul feels so far from joy… He comes searching. 🕊️ He picks you up gently, without blame. 🕊️ He carries you back, whispering: “You still belong.” 🕊️ And heaven rejoices — not because you got everything right, but because you turned your face back toward Him. Even if the world forgets your worth — the Shepherd never does. You may feel lost, but to Him, you...

Today was one of those days. I woke up late… The kitchen was a mess, the kids were cranky, and the house needed attention. I rushed. I cleaned. I cooked. I got frustrated. I yelled. And somewhere in between packing lunchboxes and folding laundry… I forgot to pray. Not intentionally. Just… everything else came first. By evening, I felt empty. Like something was missing. And then I remembered — I hadn’t spoken to my Father all day. 😔 I didn’t read a verse. I didn’t whisper a prayer. I didn’t even say “Thank You.” But you know what? God didn’t walk away. He waited. Not with anger. But with open arms. 🤍 Because that’s who He is. Not a strict manager… but a loving Father. So if you’ve ever forgotten to pray — if the chaos of life distracted you from the One who gives life — remember this: He still loves you. He still welcomes you. He still waits for you. ✝️ 📖 Bible Verse: “The Lord is gracious and compassionate, slow to anger and rich in love.” — Psalm 145:8 A Short Prayer for You: Dear ...

Hey, you. Yes, you, the one who just checked the calendar  because another EMI is due. The one who wonders, “How am I going to manage next month?” You didn’t tell anyone. You’re too tired to explain. You’re carrying more than money issues — you’re carrying shame, fear, and a silent ache in your chest. 💭 You look at your kids and smile… but deep down, you wonder if they’ll ever know the price you’re paying behind the scenes. You’ve already given up your jewels… not for show, but just to survive. You’ve borrowed, sacrificed, and stretched every rupee. And still… the numbers don’t add up. But listen to me, sister — really listen. This is not your fault. You are not a failure. The world may not see the full picture — but God does. He saw the tears that fell when you pledged your wedding chain. He heard the prayer behind your closed door. 💔 He knows that you weren’t careless — you were courageous. And even now, in this place of lack… you are not lacking His love. He’s not ashamed of y...

“You don’t go to work, right?” “So what do you even do all day?” I’ve heard it from relatives… friends… even my own husband at times. But they don’t see the endless list running in my head — the laundry that never ends, the cooking, cleaning, settling fights between kids, the doctor visits, school work, shopping lists, the planning, the adjusting, the sacrificing. They don’t see me wiping tears I didn’t cause, or silently hiding mine. 😔 They don’t see the 2 AM feeds, the 6 AM rush, the skipped meals, the cold coffee, the mental load that never switches off. No, I don’t get paid. But I give my heart every day. Dear sister, if no one has told you lately: You’re doing a job that heaven sees. ✨ God values the work you do in silence. Even if others overlook you, He counts every act of love. And He is proud of you. 💖 📖 Bible Verse: “Whatever you do, work at it with all your heart, as working for the Lord, not for human masters.” — Colossians 3:23 A Short Prayer for You: Dear God, Sometime...

“You've become too fat!” “Why are you so skinny after delivery?” “Your face has changed.” “You don’t even look like you’ve had a baby.” 👩‍🍼 Whether I gain or lose weight, someone always has something to say. But no one says — “You’re strong.” No one says — “Thank you for all you’ve been through.” Because they don’t know what I’ve walked through. The physical pain. The sleepless nights. The emotional rollercoaster. The healing that still hasn’t fully happened — both in my body and in my heart. Some days I can’t eat properly. Some days I eat out of stress. And all of that — they ignore. But they notice the curves… or the bones. Dear sister, if you’ve ever felt this — know this: You owe no one an explanation. Your body is not for approval. It’s the temple that carried a miracle. God sees beyond your skin. He sees the love, the exhaustion, the strength you carry. ✝️ You are not too big. You are not too thin. You are just what you need to be — a mother. A warrior. A vessel of grace. ...

I dropped my child off at school or at my parents home. Gave a kiss. Waved a smile. But once I turned away — the tears came. Not theirs… Mine. 😢 Because even though I show up at work every day… My heart stays at home. The guilt is real. “Am I missing their childhood?” “Will they feel I chose career over them?” But deep inside, I know: I work because I love them. I want to give them a better life. I return home drained… yet still cook, clean, help with homework, and smile as if I’m not tired at all. Dear working mom — you are not selfish. You are strong. You are building dreams for your family. And even if no one says it — God sees your sacrifice. He strengthens your steps. Keep going. You’re doing an incredible job. 💪👩‍👧‍👦 📖 Bible Verse: “She sets about her work vigorously; her arms are strong for her tasks.” — Proverbs 31:17 A Short Prayer for You: Dear Lord, I miss moments with my child while I work… but You know I do this for their future. Please give me strength, peace, and n...

Today, I spent extra time with my little one — cuddling, feeding, calming his cries… And later, I noticed my elder one sitting quietly, eyes watching, heart waiting. 🧸 She didn’t say a word. But her silence spoke a lot. “Why doesn’t Amma sit like that with me anymore?” My heart shattered. 💔 As moms, we try to give equal love, but some days — one child needs us more. And then comes the guilt. That silent ache: “Am I being unfair?” But here’s what I’ve learned — Love is not divided. It multiplies. Some days are messy. Some are noisy. But our children will remember the hugs, the eyes that noticed, the words that healed. No mother can be perfect every day. But every small moment you give matters — deeply. Be gentle with yourself today, Amma. You’re doing better than you think. 🌸 📖 Bible Verse: “He gently leads those that have young.” — Isaiah 40:11 🕊️  A Short Prayer for You: Dear Lord, Sometimes I feel like I’m not enough for both. Please help me balance, love, and notice every l...

Last night, I saw something that melted my heart. 💓 I asked my child to pray before bed, not sure if she really would. But she closed her tiny eyes… folded her little hands… and whispered, “Jesus, thank you for Amma, Appa, and for my teddy.” 🧸 It was short. Simple. But in that moment — I felt God so close. Those soft whispers from tiny lips held more power than the longest prayers. Because it was real. Pure. From the heart. 🤍 As moms, we often wonder: “Am I doing enough to teach my child about God?” But every time we pause to pray with them… every bedtime story, every “thank you, Jesus”… is planting seeds of faith that He will grow. 🌱 And even if they don’t get every word right — God hears them. When little hands learn to fold in prayer, heaven leans in to listen. So keep going, Amma. You’re not just raising children — you’re raising little hearts that know where to run when life gets hard. 🕊️ 📖 Bible Verse: “Let the little children come to Me… for the kingdom of heaven belongs t...

We shared everything — from random chats to real feelings, late-night talks to dreams we never told anyone else. 💬💗 She was my comfort zone. My go-to person. But as I grew into my new roles… Responsibilities increased, routines changed, priorities shifted. Slowly… we stopped talking like before. Not because I didn’t care. Not because we fought. But because I changed… Life changed. I still think of her when I hear a song we both loved. I still type a message sometimes… then delete it. “Will she understand?” “Will she feel hurt that I moved away?” Truth is - I miss her. But I don’t know how to return to what we once had. And in the quiet of my heart, I whisper… "Lord, please let her know I never stopped loving our friendship.” Seasons may change. But some bonds always remain tucked in our hearts. 🤍 And no matter who walks in or out — God remains the unchanging Friend of my soul. He understands the silence. He holds the memories. And He never leaves — even when life moves me in ev...

The fan stopped working? It must be me. The child misbehaved? I must not have taught him well. A misunderstanding between two family members? Somehow, it’s always me who gets blamed. Even when I stay quiet, even when I walk carefully — It feels like I’m always the easiest target. 🎯 Sometimes I wonder: “Am I really that wrong? Or are they just used to blaming me?” No matter what I do — love, help, adjust — it’s never seen. Only my “mistakes” are remembered. I cry silently after everyone sleeps. I smile during the day, but deep down I carry so many bruises — not on my body, but on my heart 💔 But then I remember… God sees the truth. Always. When people twist words, when they target you for no reason God knows your heart. And He will defend you. The world may judge by what they hear. But God knows the real story. And one day, He will lift your head high in front of those who shamed you. 🙌 📖 Bible Verse:  “The Lord will fight for you; you need only to be still.” —Exodus 14:14 ✨ A Sh...

She stopped calling me after her wedding. My own relatives. My own blood. Slowly, they began to distance themselves. No fights. No reasons. Just silence. Sometimes I wonder... Was I only useful to them at one time? When they needed my help, I was important. Now that they no longer need me — I’ve become invisible. My heart whispers: "Am I not worthy anymore? Am I that easy to forget?" 😞 The truth is, I feel abandoned… Used once. Then pushed aside like I don’t matter anymore. But here’s what brings me comfort: God never used me — He always loved me. 💖 When people walk away, God draws closer. When others delete your number, God engraves your name on His hand ✋ He sees every ache, every tear, every lonely moment. One day, He will restore your honor in front of the same people who treated you as “nothing.” But until that day comes — Keep walking with Him. You are not forgotten. You are deeply loved. 🌷 📖 Bible Verse: “Though my father and mother forsake me, the Lord will receiv...

It was fancy dress day at school. One mom had made a cardboard castle with glitter, feathers, and even lights ✨🏰 My daughter wore a simple outfit and a paper crown we made late the night before — after I finished all the cooking and cleaning 💬🍲🧹 When I saw the other kids shine, for a second, I felt like a failure. Was I a bad mom? Did I not try hard enough? 😞 But then I saw my daughter smile — so proud, so confident. She didn’t see what I lacked. She saw what I gave with love. And that’s when I realized — Being a good mom isn’t about Pinterest-worthy crafts. It’s about presence, not perfection. 💗 It’s in the way we hold their hands when they’re scared 💗 It’s in the way we make their favorite dosa after a long day 💗 It’s in the bedtime stories, even when we’re tired So let’s stop comparing our behind-the-scenes life with someone else’s highlight reel. God sees our heart — and that’s what matters most ❤️ 📖 Bible Verse: “Each one should test their own actions. Then they can take ...

You wake up early. You pack the bags, clean the mess, cook the meals, settle the fights, and hold back your own tears. And often… there’s no applause, no “thank you,” no recognition. Sometimes it feels like you're just a shadow in your own home - doing everything, but being noticed for nothing. But dear mom, listen closely: God sees every single thing you do. The socks you picked up, the food you made that no one finished, the patience you showed when your heart was tired. He sees the unseen. He values the unnoticed. While others may overlook your effort — He rewards your heart. You are not working in vain. You are storing up heavenly treasures that this world can’t measure. Bible Verse: “God is not unjust; He will not forget your work and the love you have shown Him as you have helped His people and continue to help them.” — Hebrews 6:10 A Short Prayer For You: Dear Lord, I feel invisible sometimes. I give, serve, and pour myself out — but I rarely hear a thank you. But today I re...

“Don’t take it to heart. She’s old. Just adjust.” That’s what everyone says. But they don’t see how her words make you cry in the kitchen. You try your best — you cook, clean, smile, respect her. But sometimes, no matter what you do, it feels like it’s never enough for your mother-in-law. One moment she praises you in front of guests, the next moment she finds fault in everything. And there you are… holding your tears, putting on a smile, and continuing your day like nothing happened. Being a daughter-in-law isn’t easy. You don’t want to hurt anyone. You don’t want fights. You just want peace in the house… and peace in your heart. And even if no one else understands — God does. He sees your effort. He knows your pain. And He is proud of the peace you’re trying to keep — even when your heart breaks. 📖 Bible Verse: “Blessed are the peacemakers, for they will be called children of God.” — Matthew 5:9 A Short Prayer for You: Dear God, I’m trying. I’m adjusting. I’m staying quiet even when...

Some days, the math doesn’t make sense. The bills are waiting. The groceries are needed. And your heart is quietly panicking: “Will this be enough?” As a mom, you carry the weight silently. You hide your worry behind smiles. You make small sacrifices so your kids don’t feel the pinch. And when no one sees your silent calculations… God does. You may not have much right now — but you’re giving your everything. Even when the fridge is half empty, your heart is full of hope. Even when the bank balance is low, your faith is trying to stay high. God is not blind to your struggle. He’s the same God who fed Elijah through ravens. He provided oil to a widow who thought she had nothing left. He sees. He knows. He provides. Maybe not always in the way we expect — but always in the way we need. Bible Verse: “And my God will supply all your needs according to His riches in glory in Christ Jesus.” — Philippians 4:19 A Short Prayer For You: Dear Lord, I’m worried. The money feels small, and the needs...

Today is Sunday. For many, it’s a day of going to church, dressing up, singing songs, and listening to God’s Word. But for some moms — maybe for you - church didn’t happen today. Maybe your child woke up sick. Maybe you were just too tired after a long, draining week. Maybe the house was a mess, or your heart was too heavy to go anywhere. And now, you might feel a little guilty. But please know this: God isn’t disappointed in you. He misses you. And the beautiful truth is — you don’t have to be inside a church building to meet Him. He sees you right there — in your night dress, holding your baby, sipping your tea, or even wiping your tears. You may have missed church… but you didn’t miss God. He’s still speaking. He’s still near. And He’s still waiting — gently, lovingly, patiently — just to hear your voice. Bible Verse: “The Lord is near to all who call on Him, to all who call on Him in truth.” — Psalm 145:18 A Short Prayer For You: Dear Lord, I couldn’t go to church today. But I want...

Today was tiring. Maybe no one clapped for you. No one said, “Thank you.” Maybe your work went unnoticed — again. But let me tell you something, you showed up. You gave your best, even when your body was tired and your heart was heavy. You gave love when you had none left for yourself. You picked up toys, wiped tears, folded clothes, made meals, and maybe even cried in the middle of it all — but you didn’t give up. No one may have seen… but God did. He saw every little thing. He heard the unspoken sighs. He noticed your strength when you stayed calm instead of yelling. He saw the patience you showed even when your heart was running low. Today, if no one else tells you — let this post tell you: You did well, mommy. You gave your best. That’s more than enough. Bible Verse: “God is not unjust; He will not forget your work and the love you have shown Him as you helped His people.” — Hebrews 6:10 A Short Prayer For You: Dear Lord, You see what others don’t. You see the tiredness behind my s...

Some days, we carry a quiet pain — the kind no one notices. We cook, clean, smile, and hold our family together, yet deep inside, something feels tired. Not the kind of tired that sleep can fix, but a deep emotional tiredness that stays even when the house is silent. As mothers, we give so much of ourselves. But often, our own feelings go unseen, our hearts go unheard. We feel like we need to stay strong all the time — even when we’re breaking inside. If today feels heavy… if you’re holding back tears and wondering if anyone even sees what you’re going through… this is for you. God sees your pain. He understands the silent struggles. He loves you deeply. And today, I just want to pray for you. Bible Verse: “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.” — Matthew 11:28 A Prayer for You: Dear Lord, I’m tired — not just in my body, but in my heart. I carry so much inside me, and some days I don’t even have words for it. Please hold me close today, Lord. Remind...

Dear Mom, Welcome to Grace for Moms. My name is Anisha — a mother, a believer, and a woman who has known both joy and pain on this journey. I created this blog not because I have all the answers, but because I believe in the power of faith, love, and God’s grace to carry us through. Whether you’re a tired mom, a joyful mom, a lonely wife, or a strong woman holding it all together — this space is for you. Together, let’s find comfort in the Word of God, strength through prayer, and healing in honest stories. A Verse for You Today: > “He gives strength to the weary and increases the power of the weak.” — Isaiah 40:29 A Short Prayer for You: Heavenly Father, I pray for the mom reading this right now. You see her heart — the love she gives, the pain she hides, the strength she doesn’t even know she has. Fill her with Your peace, Lord. Help her to rest in Your grace. When she feels like she's not enough, remind her that You are more than enough. Let her know she is not alone. In Jesu...