I Gave More Time to One Child… And Felt Guilty for the Other 😢💔

Today, I spent extra time with my little one —
cuddling, feeding, calming his cries…

And later, I noticed my elder one sitting quietly,
eyes watching, heart waiting. 🧸

She didn’t say a word.

But her silence spoke a lot.

“Why doesn’t Amma sit like that with me anymore?”

My heart shattered. 💔

As moms, we try to give equal love,

but some days — one child needs us more.

And then comes the guilt.

That silent ache:

“Am I being unfair?”

But here’s what I’ve learned —

Love is not divided. It multiplies.

Some days are messy. Some are noisy.

But our children will remember the hugs, the eyes that noticed, the words that healed.

No mother can be perfect every day.

But every small moment you give matters — deeply.

Be gentle with yourself today, Amma.

You’re doing better than you think. 🌸


📖 Bible Verse:

“He gently leads those that have young.”

— Isaiah 40:11 🕊️ 


A Short Prayer for You:

Dear Lord,

Sometimes I feel like I’m not enough for both.

Please help me balance, love, and notice every little need.

Let me not live in guilt — but in grace.

Amen.


Do you ever feel torn between two little hearts who need you equally?

💭 You’re not alone.

Comment a 💕 if this is you.

And share this with a mom who’s walking this same journey.

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With love,

Anisha

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